Monday, March 16, 2009

First Impressions - Part 1

Okay, so we've now, amazingly, been in Bahrain two weeks. After a somewhat auspicious start we are starting to settle in and are becoming more confident we'll adapt to life in the Middle East. On arrival at Bahrain International we were met by a couple of Jamie's work colleagues who took us to our new temporary home and handed over the keys to Jamie's car. A great start as both car and apartment are fantastic! However, things went downhill quickly from there on! Buoyed by our enthusiasm for our new apartment and eager to test drive the new wheels we decided to set out for a look see that afternoon... what a mistake! For a tiny island the traffic ain't half bad and the driving is way worse than anything we ever saw on the freeway in Houston (no offence to my friends there!). We were just out of the house and straight into a traffic jam which didn't move for two hours! Woo hoo! Just as well it was a big car as Callie was able to walk around the back seat while we sat listening to every other motorist bar ourselves toot their horns incessantly, as if that was somehow going to miraculously make everyone start moving again! Two and half hours later we made it, via every other part of the island as the map was crap, to the supermarket. Things were looking up... that is until we actually went into the place! HEB it certainly wasn't and we were hard pushed to find anything half decent for ourselves, never mind for poor Callie. No Gerber - total disaster! I'm still trying to work out what to feed her! The next few days saw more teething problems and an increased desire to head home to Houston, which we didn't appreciate was home until it dawned on us we weren't on holiday! The majority of our discussions was on how long we could realistically give it before we could ask for a move as this was NOT for us! The final straw, or so we thought, was brunch with some of Jamie's work mates that first weekend. The food was excellent, but the experience left us even more determined we had to get out of here - all around us were bad cases of Brits Abroad mentality, with the majority seemingly hell bent on getting hammered on the cheap plonk they were serving as part of the buffet and making total arses of themselves! Oh, what fun we had!
Thankfully, we have now turned a corner and are slowly coming to the realisation that, given a bit of time and a certain amount of compromise, we can enjoy our time here. Going to playgroup was the make or break for Callie and I, and with some trepidation we made our way to CHAOSS last Tuesday after three days of house arrest. We currently have no car and there are no roads outside our apartment yet... Did I not mention it was a huge building site with tower blocks in various stages of completion on all sides!? I had heard that the taxi drivers here were maniacs and was not in the least bit keen to subject myself, never mind Callie to the experience, but cabin fever having well and truly set in and depression looming as I hadn't found very much to be positive about in our new home, I decided to risk it! Truly, it was the best thing I could have done! First off, the taxi driver was very good and there were absolutely no sign of mad driving at all on his part. Secondly, play group was a roaring success after a slow start, so much so that Callie and I headed to our second group the very next day! It looks like there are quite a few things on for mums and babies, in fact we could be doing something every day. Also, there are a lot more expat mums and babies than I expected, although like in Houston, most of the babies are boys!! Must be something about 2008!
Anyway, think I'll leave this here for now and try to get another post on in the coming days... Miss Callie, unfortunately, is not very well at the moment, has a stinking cold and is grumpy as hell! Therefore, we're missing playgroup today and probably will tomorrow as well. She's supposed to be swimming on Thursday but, unless there is a miraculous recovery by then, I think that'll be off too. Boo!
Photos at the top are the view from our apartment balcony... Thought they'd make a nice change from Miss C!

1 comment:

  1. I sure hope Callie gets to feeling better so you can enjoy yourselves at the play groups, Emma. Hang in there!

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